| Location | Evesham Worcestershire |
| Age | 0 |
| Cause of Death | Still Birth |
| Date of Birth | 18/08/2002 |
| Date of Death | 18/08/2002 |
| Visitors | 242 since 29/07/2009 |
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I was 24weeks gone when i lost ashley to stillbirth not a day goes by when i dont think about him
and what he would be like when he would start school i knew from the start that something was wrong
but the doctors said its just shock i got pregant i found out he was a downs baby at 18weeks but
that didn't change a thing they told me i was having a boy so we chose ashley jake,AJ for short then
thing turn bad when i was 24 weeks he died and i had to go into hospital to give birth , i had to be
started 5 times and on the last time i went into labroud hours later Ashley arrived he was beautiful
and i will never forget that moment i stayed with him for three days then it was time for me to go
home the hardest time was leaving him at the hospital i cryed all the way home and days after
people would say you got your other kids to think of but they dont know what it like to lose a child
,then we had to lay him to rest we chose the church in our village a nice place under a big oak tree
to keep him shaded on hot days the day came i really didn't want to leave him there but i had to you
had a teddy bear made of flowers from me and your dadto go with the teddy i put in you white coffin
and then you was put in the ground we had a nice service for you and a poem for you then it was time
to go just like when i left you at the hospital i cryed again but i knew i could come and see you
anytime because you are just down the road, things got better i went back to work ,people there was
a great help if they saw me crying they knew why and just talk to me it has been seven years this
year since i lost Ashley-jake and not a day goes by when he's not in my thoughs and i wish he was
with me now so baby Ashley you rest in peace with the angels and i will pop in to see you soon
andrex is there to keep you company so i know you are not alone and auntie jean joined you aswell
just to keep you safe sweet dreams little man til we meet again your loving mum always xxxxx
To All Parents
“I’ll lend you for a little time a child of mine,” He said.
“For you to love the while he lives and mourn when he is dead,
“It may be six or seven years, or twenty-two or three.
“But will you, till I call him back, take care of him for me?
“He’ll bring his charms to gladden you, but should his stay be brief,
“You’ll have his lovely memories, as solace for your grief,
“I cannot promise he will stay, since all from earth return,
“But there are lessons taught down there I want this child to learn.
“I’ve looked the wide world over in my search for teachers true,
“And from the throngs that crowd life’s lanes I have selected you.
“Now will you give him all your love, nor think the labor vain,
“Nor hate me when I come to call to take him back again?
I fancied that I heard them say: Dear Lord, Thy will be done!
“For all the joy Thy child shall bring, the risk of grief we’ll run.
We’ll shelter him with tenderness: we’ll love him while we may,
And for happiness we’ve known forever grateful stay.
“But should the angels call for him much sooner than we’d planned.
“We’ll brave the bitter grief that comes and try to understand.”
Edgar Guest
ashley jake blanch
another year gone by with out you and i still miss you every day this would have been your seventh birthday today i hope you had a good birthday party in the garden with all your garden angels your brothers and sister sends their love and birthday wishes to you and will see you soon love and kisses sleep tight my angel all my love mum and dad xxxx
ashley you are missed every day not a day goes by when i don't think about you and what you would be like now going to school rest in peace my son til i see you again love always and never forgotton mum xxx
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